Chapter 383: Respecting teachers and respecting morality, being a vegetarian can relieve anxiety and sadness
Not everyone is willing to be diligent and give up some of their own interests to serve patients.
Some medical students, because of their family education, have been pampered and protected like emperors since childhood. They have never suffered any hardship, and when they study in school, they are like a group of princes and princesses locked in an ivory tower.
They have no idea of the sufferings of the world.
I don’t know where the salt comes from and where the vinegar comes from.
It is really difficult for them to put themselves in the patients' shoes.
Just like the historical allusion of Emperor Hui of Jin, after learning from his ministers that a large number of people were starving to death because they had no food to eat, he asked without thinking, "Why not eat meat porridge?"
It was this question that made Emperor Hui of Jin a negative example often cited by later generations.
Luo Shishen is only doing an internship at the hospital, and at most he has only half entered society. He cannot understand the suffering and difficulties of patients, and cannot imagine the pain, fear, and helplessness of patients while waiting for treatment.
Otherwise, I believe he would also become a good doctor like Zhou Can.
I would rather eat later just to help patients relieve their pain earlier.
Soon, a new surgical patient was brought in, and Zhou Can continued to work hard to perform surgery on the patient.
At around twelve noon, Dr. Xu came in.
He stood by and watched Zhou Can perform surgery on the patient without saying a word. After he came in, even though he was just standing by, Luo Shishen became much more restrained.
After Zhou Can finished the high-risk surgery, Doctor Xu said, "Xiao Zhou, after you finish this surgery, go eat first. I will take the lead to be on duty here at noon."
After hearing this, Luo Shikun was secretly happy.
After this operation, you can go eat and rest.
"Have you eaten yet? It's okay for us young people to eat a little later. Why don't you go eat first? When you're done, come back and replace us."
Zhou Can stopped what he was doing, looked up and said to Dr. Xu.
"I'm not hungry, go eat!"
Doctor Xu is no longer a young man. He has been busy with surgery for the whole morning. How can he skip lunch now?
Zhou Can didn't say anything else, but lowered his head to speed up the operation.
After more than ten minutes, he successfully completed the operation.
"Your wound has been sutured. Considering that it is on your face, we specially sutured it without any scars. Remember that the wound cannot come into contact with water. Symptoms such as itching and mild pain may occur during the healing process. Do not scratch it with your hands. Otherwise, it is easy to irritate the cuticle of the wound and grow an ugly scar. You only need to apply erythromycin at home..."
After Zhou Can finished explaining to the patient, he looked at Luo Shishen.
"Doctor Luo, please send the patient out!"
The patient thanked Zhou Can and was then taken out of the operating room by Luo Shishen.
Zhou Can looked at Qiao Yu and said, "Can we go eat later?"
"I'm totally fine."
Qiao Yu shrugged her shoulders understandingly.
After obtaining her consent, Zhou Can walked outside to the operating room, and sure enough, Dr. Xu was still there.
"Teacher, I know why you have no appetite. I have already lost one teacher, and I don't want to see another one fall. You should go and eat something! I calculated the time. If you can get back within an hour, I can just complete all the emergency surgeries outside."
As he said this, Zhou Can looked at Dr. Xu sincerely.
It was also the first time that he spoke to his teacher, Dr. Xu, in such a "little adult " tone.
"All right!"
After hesitating for a few seconds, Dr. Xu agreed.
"When performing surgery, you can't just pursue speed. Safety is above all else. You must remember that."
"Understood! You can go and have your meal without worry! Director Hu's memorial service should be held the day after tomorrow. His son told me this morning that everything should be kept simple. This was also Director Hu's wish before he died."
Zhou Can revealed this news to Dr. Xu, which naturally had a certain meaning.
Because of Director Hu's sudden death, Dr. Xu was so sad that he didn't even want to eat. When the time comes, Dr. Xu will definitely go to Director Hu's memorial service to see him off.
Informing the time in advance also allows Dr. Xu to be prepared.
"well……"
Dr. Xu left with a sigh.
Although there was no expression on his face, Zhou Can could feel that Dr. Xu must be very sad inside.
I never expected that the two of them had been competing for most of their lives and were like enemies before.
After shaking hands and making peace, they finally felt a sense of mutual respect.
Human emotions are always so complicated.
"Mr. Luo, bring in another patient for surgery!"
Zhou Can shouted outside.
"OK!"
His answer was as weak as that of a person who had not eaten for several days and was about to die of hunger.
It was just because Zhou Can was his superior doctor and had a higher status than him that he didn't dare to say much.
Little did he know that these behaviors would definitely deduct points from his performance in the eyes of Zhou Can and Dr. Xu.
Interns are also evaluated. If their work attitude is not correct, the evaluation given by the department will definitely be more pertinent.
After the new surgical patient was brought in, Zhou Can did what he was supposed to do and was not affected by Luo Shishen's negative emotions at all.
After treating one patient, a new patient is called in.
"Doctor Zhou... They say that man is like iron and food is like steel. If you don't eat, you'll be hungry. It's already 12:36. Should we finish our meal, take a short break, and then come back for surgery?"
After Luo Shishen gritted his teeth and performed two operations with Zhou Can, he finally couldn't help but protest.
"Let's take care of the remaining patients first and then go eat! It's okay for us young people to go hungry for a while."
Zhou Can really didn’t understand why eating on time was so important in the eyes of this young intern?
Logically speaking, shouldn't medical interns focus on gaining real clinical treatment experience?
Although the management of interns is not as strict as that of regular trainees, and the requirements are much lower, but the skills you learn are your own!
"The emergency operating room needs a doctor on duty 24 hours a day. Now the other doctors are out for lunch. It will be the same if we wait until Dr. Xu comes back."
Qiao Yu once again helped to smooth things over and ease Luo Shishen's resistance.
Women are water, and smart women are best at using softness to overcome hardness.
"Okay, then we'll wait a while before going!"
After hearing what Qiao Yu said, Luo Shishen's tone softened a lot.
"When I performed surgery with Dr. Xu before, he always asked us interns to eat first. It's become a habit, so I can't help but complain! I don't mean any other thing!"
He was obviously explaining this to Zhou Can.
"Hurry up and call the next patient in!"
Zhou Can nodded without comment.
After Luo Shishen left, Qiao Yu and Zhou Can looked at each other and she smiled.
Zhou Can shook his head helplessly.
It would be great if every member could work together as sincerely and united as Qiao Yu.
Unfortunately, not everyone can have such a high level of awareness.
This is why it takes a long time to establish a surgical team. Because everyone has different ideas and personalities. It takes a long time to establish the leadership and cohesion of the core members of the team.
Only then can we focus our minds and efforts on one thing.
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Around one o'clock in the afternoon, Dr. Xu came back.
Zhou Can finished the operation in his hand and went to the cafeteria to eat with Qiao Yu and Luo Shishen.
"Miss Qiao, thank you for helping me out so many times. I'll treat you to a chicken drumstick at noon! I have to show my gratitude in some way."
Luo Shishen came up to Qiao Yu and said.
"Ah...it's just a small matter, you don't have to be polite, Doctor Luo!"
How could she easily accept someone else's invitation?
Thinking back to the time when Dr. Lu was pestering her, he wanted to treat her to dinner and milk tea every day, but she refused every time.
Only Zhou Can made her feel special, and she even took the initiative to ask Zhou Can for a cup of milk tea.
"There are many things I really don't understand. If you can give me some pointers, it will be of great help to me. It's nothing to treat you to a chicken drumstick. If you don't like it, I can treat you to coffee or Western food after get off work!"
Fortunately, this young man dared to think about it.
He directly asked Qiao Yu to have coffee with him after get off work. Who did he think she was?
With her beauty and talent, if it was so easy to get a date, she would have found a boyfriend long ago and wouldn't be single until now.
The more outstanding a girl is, the higher her vision is and the more proud she is.
They are particularly picky when it comes to boyfriends.
It's basically impossible for a boy without any ability to date them.
On the contrary, girls who are beautiful but average in skills and abilities are easily moved by men's persistent pursuit.
For example, after work every day, I can pick them up on time.
Or when there is a need, the boy will be the first to run to offer his courtesy regardless of wind or rain.
It is even possible that when they are harassed, you can win their hearts by helping them out and fighting with street thugs.
Girls like this often think they are marrying for love, but the final results are not very good.
Men have learned to use cheap actions to pursue beautiful girls. They can pursue the first one, and when they get tired of her, they can use the same trick to pursue the second and third one.
Those men who cheat basically have this characteristic.
On the contrary, girls like Qiao Yu and Yang Chan are talented, capable, proud, and have high standards. In their eyes, if a man does not suit their taste, no matter how much he pays attention to them, it is difficult to make them fall in love.
As for picking them up from get off work rain or shine, to be honest, they would not give men the opportunity to show such courtesy from the beginning.
The first time, I will reject it directly.
This is also why such girls have high standards for choosing a partner and are more likely to marry for love.
And life after marriage usually gets better and better.
A man who is not bad in himself and can catch their eyes must be stronger than them. At least he needs to have some inner qualities to be attractive to them.
Both parties have strong cultivation and abilities, so after marriage, the couple's careers will definitely not be too bad.
Economic conditions will naturally get better and better.
In addition, both parties attach great importance to the quality of marriage life and have high requirements for loyalty and faith in love, so generally they will not live too badly. Such girls generally have zero tolerance for their husbands' cheating after marriage.
They will get divorced immediately.
The girls mentioned above who are easily pursued by men's cheap behavior are more likely to be soft-hearted. As long as the man squeezes a few tears, admits his mistakes, writes a letter of guarantee, or even kneels down, they will be soft-hearted and choose to forgive.
In the end, you are destined to be covered in wounds.
The smile on Qiao Yu's face faded a little, and he turned to Luo Shishen and said seriously, "Doctor Luo, you really don't have to be polite, because I will try my best to provide some help and care to every new doctor. We are all new here, and I can understand the difficulties, that's all."
This time she refused openly.
"Okay then! Thank you for meeting a beautiful and kind-hearted female colleague like you. You have allowed me to feel the beauty of society before I enter it."
Luo Shishen did not insist any further.
Because if we continue to argue, the relationship will most likely become strained.
Qiao Yu's attitude towards him will definitely become much colder in the future.
He definitely has this judgment.
“Thank you!”
Qiao Yu replied indifferently, with a much less enthusiastic attitude.
Zhou Can saw all this, and a barely perceptible expression flashed across his face. After three years of meeting again, Qiao Yu was still the same Qiao Yu, not changed at all.
"Doctor Zhou, what do you want for lunch today? I'll go get you some food!"
"I'd better wait in line with you! I don't really feel like eating today!"
Zhou Can's mentor passed away, and the sadness in his heart was still very strong. But it was not easy for an adult, and for the sake of work, he had to put away his sadness so as not to affect his work.
As for crying loudly and grief-stricken, that was even more impossible.
At this moment, he envied those innocent and cheerful children even more.
"Is it because of the death of Director Hu Kan?"
She asked, looking at him with concern.
"Um!"
Zhou Can nodded.
"Director Hu was such a good person, and it's really sad that he passed away just like that. I heard that being a vegetarian can alleviate the symptoms of sadness, so how about I eat vegetarian food with you at noon?"
She said sympathetically.
"Hey, how can I affect you? You are a surgical nurse who has to take on many roles, and your nutrition must keep up. So, you should eat what you should eat. As for what you said about being a vegetarian to relieve sadness, this is the first time I've heard of it. I'll listen to you and give it a try!"
Zhou Can already has a girlfriend, so he doesn't dare to get too close to Qiao Yu in life.
Especially some ambiguous actions, he didn't dare to do them at all.
At that time, the deeper Qiao Yu falls, the greater the harm to her will be.
So, from the very beginning, Zhou Can rejected her.
The two had known each other for three years, but they had never broken the window paper. Qiao Yu definitely had a crush on him, but Zhou Can did not hide it either, and told her very early that he already had a girlfriend.
With her intelligence, there is no need to say many things explicitly.
If you tell her that I already have a girlfriend, you should find another good husband! This kind of words is actually very hurtful to her self-esteem.
It’s like girls with higher emotional intelligence basically give the nice guy card to guys they don’t like.
"I read in an American medical journal that a vegetarian diet can relieve anxiety and sadness. This is the conclusion reached by a very famous nutritionist after clinical research."
She explained.
"No wonder Miss Qiao has such strong professional skills! I didn't know you can read foreign medical journals. I really admire you!"
After hearing this, Luo Shishen looked at Qiao Yu with a hint of admiration in his eyes.
Otherwise, why do you say he is a rookie in the workplace!
If he had a little more emotional intelligence, he wouldn't have interrupted. Anyone with a discerning eye could see that he was a 200-watt light bulb at the moment.
“You’re starting to study nutrition now?”
Zhou Can's heart moved slightly.
She had expressed her desire to study abroad and pursue nursing studies very early on.
Now it seems that she is already planning and preparing.
"I started learning this knowledge at the end of last year, also for work needs. I was caring for patients in the intensive care unit and found that more than 90% of critically ill patients had malnutrition problems. If their nutrition could be better supported, I believe their recovery period would be greatly shortened. Even some seriously ill patients who could have survived eventually died due to inadequate nutritional support, which was a pity."
She explained to Zhou Can.
As for Luo Shishen's praise, she basically ignored it.
Ever since Luo Shishen offered to treat her to coffee after get off work, her attitude towards him had become much colder.
This is also where her cleverness lies.
