Chapter 464: The reason why male doctors are single, the master of medical skills
Most doctors are very careful about protecting family members, especially their privacy. Family members are rarely allowed to come to the hospital office, and even if they do, it is usually for medical treatment.
If you don't tell outsiders, most people won't know that they are the doctor's wife or parents.
In short, in this era of tense doctor-patient relations, for the safety of their families, everyone will try not to expose their relatives. Because you never know if there is a pair of hateful eyes staring at you in secret.
Zhou Can quickly came to the cardiothoracic surgery department and was originally planning to visit Director Xueyan, but when she thought of her husband's warning, Zhou Can gave up the idea.
If you meet some bad people, there is no need to confront them.
"Miss Qin, do you know where Director Le is?"
Zhou Can grabbed a nurse at the nurse station and asked.
"It seems to be in operating room number two. The operation is probably almost over. Doctor Zhou, it's okay for you to sit here and wait for him."
The nurse is in her twenties, just in her prime.
They are often quite enthusiastic and proactive towards young and handsome potential stocks like Zhou Can.
Only when they meet an ugly doctor or one with average potential will they ignore him like a proud white swan.
"No, no, I'm going to the operating room. I have something else to do later . Bye!"
Zhou Can waved to the enthusiastic nurse.
The hospital has never had a rule that forbids employees from dating. As long as you have the ability, it is OK for a doctor to marry a nurse, or for a doctor to marry a doctor.
But to be frank, there are more men than women these days, and since girls earn a decent income, they can live well without relying on men. Many female nurses are unwilling to marry male doctors.
From the perspective of outsiders, male doctors have stable jobs, high incomes, and high social status, and are considered high-quality stocks.
However, nurses are employees of the hospital system and they know very well how hard it is for ordinary doctors. Apart from other things, the overtime alone is enough to scare them away.
Later, when I really got married and my wife fell ill, the doctor had to work in the hospital and treat other patients, and he had no time to take care of his wife at home.
I often tell my wife to take some medicine, drink more warm water, and have a good rest at home.
The same thing will happen if you have children in the future.
There was a nurse who married a doctor. After two years of marriage, she decisively chose to divorce.
She cried to the reporter, saying that when the toilet was clogged, she had to find a solution herself. When the faucet was broken, she had to find a solution herself. When she was sick and bedridden, she had to take care of herself. When her husband had to work overtime, he didn't even call or send a greeting message, let alone come home to take care of her.
After their child was born, they thought things would get better.
As a result, the child had a high fever one night, and the nurse's husband happened to have to work the night shift that day.
The female nurse called her husband more than ten times, but no one answered.
She raised the child by herself, taking care of him in every way, and she didn't even have time to close her eyes.
I was already very sleepy and tired at this time.
She desperately wanted her husband to be by her side to lend a hand and take on her responsibilities as a husband.
Finally, she could only drag her exhausted body and rush to the hospital with her child for emergency treatment. It was difficult to get a taxi at night, and it was raining heavily that night. She took the child and rushed to the hospital with great difficulty.
In order to protect the child in her arms from getting wet, her back was already soaked by the rain.
Her heart was also soaked by the rain.
After the child recovered, she directly asked her husband for a divorce.
She even confessed to the reporter that she deeply regretted marrying a doctor. In any marriage, after the passion and enthusiasm of love fade away, one will need to adapt to the dull life of firewood, rice, oil and salt.
I believe that many women who are married to doctors have experienced the sadness expressed by the female nurse above.
She was lucky enough to choose to divorce after only two years of marriage.
Some women are very traditional and loyal to love.
After getting married, although her husband often had to work overtime and rarely took care of family matters, they still gritted their teeth and persevered. Finally, her husband was awarded the title of associate senior professional and retired to the second line, so he no longer had to work night shifts like before.
The income is also higher.
At this time, the husband followed the law that promotion and wealth would lead to the death of his wife.
He first started dating a young female nurse in the department.
Later, he flirted with a female medical student under his command, disregarding the ethics between teachers and students and crossing the line. What's more infuriating is that the husband thinks his wife is too old and ugly, and is not as good as the young and beautiful female medical student in all aspects, so he insisted on getting a divorce.
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It’s not to say that every male doctor is irresponsible in marriage, but at least some of them are like that.
During his medical student, resident doctor and residency period, his income was low and his work was busy, so he could not take care of his family. When he was promoted to chief physician and even associate senior physician, his income was high and his work was not so busy, but he chose not to go home and enjoy the colorful world outside.
Marrying a male doctor is a big gamble.
Unless you are very confident in the man's character and loyalty, you should be prepared for the worst.
Today's female nurses are no longer as naive and gullible as the students of medical schools in the past. Better hospitals basically require a bachelor's degree. Female nurses with higher education have very high standards for choosing a spouse.
They simply look down on ordinary male doctors.
This is why many male doctors are still single in their thirties. Many people think that these male doctors are not romantic and only know how to see patients, perform surgery, and write papers all day long, like idiots.
That's not really the case.
They wanted to pursue the female nurse, but she refused.
Just like Dr. Lu who was fired from the emergency department, he is definitely a role model of a scumbag. He can coax female nurses and female doctors around with his mouth, but in the end, isn't he still single?
I didn't see him actually taking down any female nurse.
Those nurse girls are so smart!
As for male doctors pursuing female doctors, the threshold is even higher. Female doctors are relatively scarce, and their potential and income are no worse than those of male doctors. If you want to pursue them, you probably have to compete with countless single male doctors in the hospital and single men in society. The chances of winning are really too low.
Any small e-commerce business owner with an annual income of 300,000 or 400,000 yuan can easily outperform most resident physicians.
To sum up, the only thing Zhou Can could think of was: May God strike you with lightning if you persuade others to study medicine.
If you have a grudge against someone, persuade his son to study medicine!
Zhou Can came to operating room No. 2 and was about to ring the doorbell when he saw a red light flashing, and then the door of the operating room opened automatically.
The first person to come out was Chief Physician Xueyan.
When she saw Zhou Can, her eyes were a little evasive.
In addition, Zhou Can saw that although she was wearing a mask, there seemed to be a bruise at the corner of her eye.
Even with foundation on top, it's still hard to hide.
"Sister Yan!"
Zhou Can took the initiative to call her.
"I didn't ask you to come over to help with the operation today, did I?" Xueyan asked with some confusion.
"I asked Dr. Zhou to come here. The patient who had the cardia cancer resection surgery had severe chest pain after the operation, and the cause has not been found. I was worried about an accident, so I asked Dr. Zhou to come and help."
Director Le walked out from inside.
"Oh! Then you guys go and have a look! I have something else to do at home, so I'll leave work first!"
After Director Xueyan finished speaking, she walked away.
Her behavior was obviously different from usual.
"Sister Yan, be careful."
Zhou Can looked at her back, feeling somewhat worried.
In the past few years of getting along, he really treated Xueyan as a fellow senior sister. Now seeing that her marriage was in serious crisis, he was very worried.
There was a bruise on the left corner of her eye, and after the operation, she did not take off her mask and hood when she walked out of the operating room. All signs indicated that she was likely to have suffered domestic violence.
In any case, during the marriage, especially when living together, the woman is the weaker party.
When men think they may be cheated on, domestic violence is common.
"Um!"
She hummed lightly and walked away without looking back.
Director Le looked at Xueyan's hurried steps and frowned slightly. He walked towards the ward with Zhou Can and whispered, "Director Xue seems a little out of shape at work today. I wonder if something happened at home?"
"It's really not easy for her!"
Zhou Can let out a long sigh.
She has to bear a lot of pressure at work. Now her family and marriage are having problems. It's really true that beautiful women have such a tragic fate.
I just hope she can clear up the misunderstanding with her husband as soon as possible.
If he met a reasonable man, Zhou Can would be able to help him think of a solution. Now, the only thing he could do was to keep his distance from Director Xueyan, otherwise he would only hurt her.
I followed Director Le to the ward and saw the patient who had undergone cardiac cancer resection.
This is a middle-aged woman in her 37s or 38s, with disheveled hair and sweat on her forehead, lying on the bed groaning constantly. Her husband sits beside the bed and takes care of her.
"Director Le, you've come just in time. Please help check on my wife. She keeps crying out in pain. Do you have any analgesics? Can you prescribe some? I asked the nurse and the doctor in charge, and they both said they would have to wait until you personally see her before prescribing any medicine."
The female patient's husband stood up and was very respectful to Director Le.
Basically, most family members have this attitude towards doctors. Especially during the patient's hospitalization, they need help from the doctor and will never offend the doctor easily.
"This is Dr. Zhou from our hospital's emergency department. He is very good at treating pain and complications after cardiothoracic surgery. I specially invited him to come for a consultation to try to find out the cause of your wife's postoperative pain."
When Director Le introduced Zhou Can, he praised him very highly.
On the one hand, doing so is a respect for Zhou Can, and on the other hand, it shows an attitude to the family, letting them know that Director Le attaches great importance to this patient.
We are already trying to find a solution.
"Doctor Zhou, please take care of me!"
The family member saw that the man had a muscular build, big hands, and was not dressed very well. He must be a laborer such as a truck driver.
In terms of dealing with people, he did a pretty good job.
At least it made Zhou Can feel comfortable.
"You're welcome! It's our duty to do everything we can to cure the patient."
Zhou Can walked to the bedside and first checked the patient's medical records, nursing records, etc.
“Is the amount and color of urine still normal?”
"It feels like it's a lot, but I've never seen the color before." The male family member said a little embarrassedly.
"It's okay. Just know that your urination is normal. But next time, you can observe the color of your urine. If it is tea-colored or even contains blood or milk urine, you must tell the nurse in charge in time."
Zhou Can nodded and continued to understand the patient's current symptoms.
"I just read your medical records. You had a jejunoesophageal anastomosis. Is this where your pain is?"
This time, Zhou Can communicated directly with the female patient.
His eyes were secretly observing the female patient's expression. Fortunately, the female patient's eyes were bright, indicating that she was conscious.
"Yes, this is the painful area."
The woman sounded very weak when she spoke and kept taking in air, which showed that she was in pain.
“Does the pain come from the bottom up?”
Zhou Can gestured on his chest to show her.
If there is a male family member around, you must be extra careful when asking questions or describing certain actions.
If you make gestures in front of a female patient's chest in front of the male family members, and you encounter an unreasonable or narrow-minded male family member, he may directly punch you.
“You are amazing!”
The woman endured the pain and gave Zhou Can a thumbs up.
"That's how it hurts. The painful area is also in this area."
After hearing this, the male family member next to him couldn't help but look at the young doctor with admiration.
"The experts are here, and I feel relieved this time."
He said happily beside him.
"Doctor Zhou is very good at treating this type of disease. I hope we can find out the cause of the pain." Director Le was also there to help Zhou Can.
Sometimes appropriate self-boasting is also an important part of doctor-patient communication.
But you must seize the opportunity and not brag too much.
Otherwise you'd be like Wang Po selling melons, boasting about what you have.
Director Le took the opportunity to praise Zhou Can's medical skills, which undoubtedly had a very good effect and greatly increased the trust of patients and their families in Zhou Can.
"You guys are too kind!"
Zhou Can said modestly, and then continued, "Let me describe the process of your pain. If yes, nod your head, if not, shake your head. The pain starts from this part, then slowly rises, there will be a burning sensation, and it keeps getting worse. Finally, it stops at this position, and then spreads around like fireworks, and the pain escalates and intensifies again."
Zhou Can was still gesturing on himself.
"Yes! You are absolutely right. You are amazing. It is exactly as you said." The female patient's pain was clearly described by Zhou Can, and her trust in Zhou Can also rose to a new level.
At the same time, the hope for recovery has increased a little.
"Okay, I'll discuss this with Director Le. I already know your general situation. If necessary, I'll come to the ward to ask you."
Zhou Can and Director Le came to the office.
"Doctor Zhou, you were amazing just now. How did you know so much about the medical records after just glancing at them?"
Director Le looked at Zhou Can with admiration.
When people get old, they no longer rely on their muscles and bones for strength.
In the medical field, those who are proficient in it have always been the first to come and those who are proficient in it are the teachers.
Director Le does not have the ability of Zhou Can, so he naturally admires Zhou Can from the bottom of his heart.
